My holiday traditions were a little
different then everyone else’s when I was growing up. Every Christmas Eve my family went to the
evening church service and/or went to go look at Christmas lights around
town. My dad would take us on a tour of
all his favorite themed light streets and my sister and I would count the
minutes until we could go back home.
“Why?” you ask. Because we were
special. That’s right, Santa was so
overanxious to give us our gifts, that he would wait until we were out of our
house to come snuggle those beautiful presents under our tree. As soon as we got in the house, we would
launch downstairs to see if Santa had come to visit us.
Of course
he had, and the next hour or so was spent in a flurry of glossy wrapping paper
and ecstatic shrieks of joy. After we
opened our presents we would usually have some snacks and hot chocolate and
stay up late watching a movie. (More
likely than not, A Muppets Family Christmas, which my family knows all the
words to. Much to my husbands chagrin.) Occasionally, when my sister was little, my
dad and I would go to the late night candlelight service at church. We would go to bed and sleep in on Christmas
morning, then usually do Christmas dinner at home or a nearby relative’s
house. In hindsight, this was a serious
planning win on my parents’ part, because we crashed hard from our
sugar/present high and usually slept in pretty good on Christmas morning.
Now that I
have my own children, my husband and I are trying to incorporate both of our
separate sets of traditions into some conglomeration of a tradition for our own
kids. I am adamant about doing gift
opening on Christmas Eve., especially this year as I will be hosting Christmas
dinner at our house, because I always thought that made our family special when
I was growing up. We are slowly but
surely beginning to morph our families’ way of doing things into one.
I love
seeing my kids’ faces when they experience the awesomeness of Christmas. It isn’t just the gifts, or the food, but the
chance to spend time together and make memories. Whenever I think of Christmases past, my
memories have a sort of happy hazy glow around them, and this feeling of
comfort and joy is what I most wish to pass on to my children through my
traditions.
By Rochelle Lund
No comments:
Post a Comment